3 things I got from the people
Run your own race!
In the contemporary world, you are as alone as the first man “Adam” was. life is indeed teaching us at almost every step and stage, I personally believe that a human being shouldn't ever pull himself out of the cognitive learning stage; because of the fact that we regularly learn from our mistakes. Since I’ve crossed my teenage I’ve opened myself for almost every sort of change. “I am always ready to learn although I do not always like to being taught” (-Winston Churchill)
Try to shorten your F&F circle because the good quality of people in your life can lead you towards positive amelioration, whereas; the quantity of people can immensely become the reason for the disaster. I accepted that “FLY first love yourself” while live life alone as this is one of the wonderful approaches to self-learning.
Avoid family customs
A major pillar of one family are the parents, In the United States and similarly, other developed countries in the world some parents are modern enough that they understand the era as well as their children that what are they capable of encountering the circumstances; but few are the guardians and the dominant parents who try to impose their traditional norms and morels on children; e.g. Children are bound to stay within the specified career pathway which is being decided by the parents, which eventually decreases the decision making power of their kids. For personal growth, it is necessary for a person to make a decision even during his/her teenage. Nobody can deny that “we all grow from the worst”.
Be you and Be open
A very famous saying of a Chinese philosopher “Knowing others is intelligence; knowing yourself is true wisdom.” Life teaches me the bitter truth that this is such a hard assignment of one’s life to know about himself, if you know about yourself you are the wisest person. You should be yourself and be determined the world will for sure adjust you for their own sake.
Last but not least be open and be kind being the reason that your kindness is always appreciated by God, and in order to grow more one must open his/her mind towards a lot of learning.